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YOU CAN NEITHER KEEP NOR HOLD A MAN - NWAGU NNEKA

You cannot keep a man.
You cannot hold a man.
If you like slay, give him incredible sex, do the unbelievable, give him children, give him money.
If a man doesn't want you, he doesn't.
Give yourself some sense and know when to drop it!
I remember a conversation I had with some male friends in camp. As usual i was the only girl among five boys đŸ˜‚. One told us about this girl in his university that gave him 'everything' yet he didn't just want her. Money, sex, cooked, washed, rented apartment for the both of them. But he said he didn't just want her.
Another guy called him a big fool. To him, sacrifice is a true test of love. After all love is just feelings.
I tell you that even Mr A meets the one he loves, he'll still cheat.

If he still wants to cheat on you with all your degree of amazing, hotness and spirituality, he'll cheat.
And yes, He can still cheat if he loves you (painful but true).
Stop trying to hold a man. Stop checking phone. Stop shouting. Stop having beating beating heartđŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚ #personalstory

It is only a man that can keep himself. It's his personal choice and understanding of the sanctity of commitment, marriage and relationship that keeps him.

More than love (here I talk about deep feelings) be with a man that has integrity and character.
Love is easy. Character is not. Integrity is harder.
You can fall in love. But you cannot fall into character and integrity. These ones are built consciously and over time.

Applies to the feminine side too.

I greet una. How's your new year coming along?

Written by:
Nwagu Nneka
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